by Owen on Monday, November 22nd, 2010 - - CommentOnline Dating, Sex
Starting off a new relationship is always a very exciting time. Before things get comfortable, there is a period of much excitement and newness that leave us all on the edge – in a good way. However, when do you know if a commitment has actually begun? Perhaps most importantly, how do you even bring that up to your partner?
The reason behind such concern lies in a simple law of attraction. The more you chase after a girl, the more she’ll run from you. Avoid her, and she’ll chase after you. It works everytime. That is why most men put off in letting a woman know he’s interested in a relationship; for fear that they will in turn take off.
Before letting her know you are thinking of taking things to the next level, scope out for a few signs that she has the same intentions. Does she talk about wanting children? Does she ask you about your family? Those are all signs that she is thinking about getting serious.
When dealing with a person you have only recently met in the online personals, be sure to give it some time before you jump ship and start thinking about getting into a relationship. People can change and what you want today may not be what you want tomorrow. Waiting a few months, or weeks could also give you a better glimpse into what she’s really like. You want to make sure she’s not just putting up a “perfect girl” front in order to get you to commit. Women can be tricky like that.
Start off by calling her a couple of times a week and make and effort to truly get to know her. Ask her questions, engage her in meaningful and playful conversations. Only then will you be able to tell if you want to peruse this any further. And when you do, don’t allow yourself to become wipped. By keeping things fresh and exciting you’ll ensure you don’t end up with a bitter partner who resents you for being too predictable. Of course you could always try xxx dating to spice up your life too!